Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Our Mom: In Heaven and In Our Hearts



Our dear Mom, Iona M. Coval, died peacefully on July 12, 2013, following a brief illness.  She was born on February 2, 1926, in Hazleton, Pennsylvania, to the late Lewis J. and Mary A. (Miko) Maylath.  While we mourn the loss of our dear Mom (Iona), we know that she is now in heaven and always in our hearts.

Iona's First Communion Day
May 13, 1933

Our Mom and Dad celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on June 27, 2013.  Deo gratias!

Mom retired after 36 years of service as Secretary of Saint Margaret Mary School, Harrisburg, where generations of students and parents experienced her thoughtfulness, attention to detail, and spirit of generosity.  We enjoyed listening to Mom’s “school stories,” being with her at church or shopping when parents and students came up to greet Mrs. Coval with a smile or hug, and seeing her delight at the countless homemade gifts she received and treasured and for which she sent countless handwritten thank you notes. 

 
Mom (Iona) was an active member of Saint Margaret Mary Parish, especially involved with organizing Project Easter Basket, the Christmas Craft Bazaar, and helping with the Parish Festivals.  She served in a variety of leadership roles with the Parish Council of Catholic Women and led fundraising efforts to build water tanks to benefit African villages.


Rev. William O'Donnell, OMI, Pastor; Iona, CCW President; Susan Grove, Vice-President; Isabelle Ellsperman, Secretary; Linda Melenchek, Treasurer; A. June Ward, Past-President
 


Anne Shepos, Mom (Iona), Karen, newly elected President of the World Union of Catholic Women's Organisations (WUCWO) on June 7, 2010
 
She was a devoted wife and mother.  She was a wonderful homemaker and enjoyed preparing traditional Slovak food with her daughters.  Her hobbies included gardening, crocheting, knitting, crossword and jigsaw puzzles.  Mom (Iona) enjoyed playing the piano, especially duets with her sisters or daughters.  The closing hymn of her funeral Mass, Star of the Sea, was traditionally played by Iona’s sister, Mamie, who was organist for more than 50 years at Holy Trinity Slovak Roman Catholic Church, where the family lived in Hazleton.   The music and lyrics (below) give us hope and peace.

Mary Ann, Terry, Dad (John), Mom (Iona), Karen

Your support and prayers are greatly appreciated.  Words cannot express our gratitude for your countless expressions of sympathy and kindness: the Holy Sacrifices of the Mass being offered for Mom (Iona), the perpetual enrollments in spiritual works of religious congregations, memorial donations in honor of Mom, beautiful flowers, delicious food, phone calls, e-mails, precious shared memories of Mom and so much more. 
You are signs of God’s love and our Blessed Mother’s care for each of us.  May God richly bless you as you have blessed us!


Mary, Star of the Sea, Stella Maris
Iona's (Mom's) Funeral Mass and Burial were held on the Feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, July 16, 2013

 
Star of the East, oh Bethlehem star,
 Guiding us on to heaven afar
 Sorrow and grief are lull’d by thy light
 Thou hope of each mortal, in death’s lonely night
 
Fearless and tranquil, we look up to Thee
 Knowing thou beam’st through eternity
 Help us to follow where Thou still dost guide
 Pilgrims of earth so wide
 
Star of the East, thou hope of the soul
 While round us here the dark billows roll
 Lead us from sin to glory afar
 Thou star of the East, thou sweet Bethl’em’s star.
 
Star of the East, undimmed by each cloud,
 What tho’ the storms of grief gather loud
 Faithful and pure thy rays beam to save
 Still bright o’er the cradle, and bright o’er the grave
 
Smiles of a Saviour are mirror’d in thee
 Glimpses of Heav’n in thy light we see
 Guide us still onward to that blessed shore
 After earth’s toil is o’er
 
Star of the East, thou hope of the soul
 While round us here the dark billows roll
 Lead us from sin to glory afar
 Thou star of the East, thou sweet Bethl’em’s star.
 
Oh star that leads to God above
 Whose rays are Peace and Joy and Love
 Watch o’er us still till life hath ceased
 Beam on, bright star, sweet Bethlehem star.
 
The words were written by George Cooper in 1890. The music was arranged by composer Amanda Kennedy in 1883, for a song called "Star of the Sea".  http://www.songonlyrics.com/star-of-the-east-lyrics
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1 comment:

  1. “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children,
    you will not enter the Kingdom of heaven.
    Whoever becomes humble like this child
    is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven.
    And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me.”
    Matthew 18: 3-5

    One month to the day after our Mom died some dear friends shared with me the good news they received from the wife’s sonogram… and then asked me if I would be the godmother to their child. When I was able to answer through my tears of joy I, of course, said that I would be honored to serve as godmother. The husband then told me that the baby’s official due date is January 2—one month before our Mom’s birthday. The timing could only be God’s time!

    Please pray for the parents, big brothers and big sisters of my expected godchild. Please pray that I may worthily fulfill this responsibility.

    We never know when God is going to call us to be spiritual mothers or fathers to His children, in formal or informal ways. But the faith that we received was given to us to be shared with others. We need to be ready to share God’s love and our love with all His children that we meet on life’s journey.

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